{"id":3223,"date":"2008-05-09T15:26:00","date_gmt":"2008-05-09T15:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vultuschristi.org\/index.php\/2008\/05\/for-those-whose-lives-have-not-1\/"},"modified":"2016-08-09T13:19:27","modified_gmt":"2016-08-09T12:19:27","slug":"for-those-whose-lives-have-not-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vultuschristi.org\/index.php\/2008\/05\/for-those-whose-lives-have-not-1\/","title":{"rendered":"For Those Whose Lives Have Not Turned Out As They Planned"},"content":{"rendered":"

Memorial of Blessed Damien of Molokai, Priest<\/strong>
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\nI posted this reflection for the feast of Blessed Damien last May 10th, but in reviewing it, I see that its message has become, if anything, even more relevant to my own life. New readers of Vultus Christi may find it helpful.
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\nWhen Providence Writes One’s Life<\/strong>
\nBlessed Damien is, I think, a very suitable patron for those who lives have not turned out as they planned. By the time a child has reached adolescence, he has already dreamed dreams and nourished hopes for his life. The vivid reveries of little boys and girls take shape in a kind of autobiography written in the imagination and lived ahead of time in a world of fantasy. In that world no desire is broken, no hope dashed, no dream unfulfilled, but rarely do the life stories we write for ourselves correspond to those written for us by Providence. Events and circumstances \u2014 illness, loss, changes in fortune, failure \u2014 shatter dreams, close some doors and open others. The chance encounter with one person or the discovery of a particular book can change the direction of a life, leading to unexpected twists and turns.<\/p>\n

The Designs of the Heart of Jesus<\/strong>
\nGod intervenes in a thousand little ways, and sometimes dramatically, to realize in every generation \u201cthe designs and thoughts of His Heart\u201d (cf. Ps 32:11). \u201cFor my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are my ways your ways, says the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts\u201d (Is 55:8-9).<\/p>\n

Yes to the Plan of God<\/strong>
\nThe life story of each of us written in the Heart of God surpasses by far anything we could have imagined or written for ourselves. When one realizes that one\u2019s life is not unfolding as one thought it would, two responses are possible. One can refuse the path opened by God, \u201ckicking against the goads\u201d (Ac 26:14), or one can say \u201cYes\u201d to it.<\/p>\n

Blessed Damien said \u201cYes\u201d to God\u2019s astonishing plan for him, a plan that led him from Belgium to Hawaii and, after ten years, to the dreaded leper colony of Molokai. The suffering Christ called Damien to a costly, sacrificial love, and to configuration with himself. He became \u201cas one from whom men hide their faces\u201d (Is 53:3), identified fully with the suffering Christ and with the lepers he served.<\/p>\n

A Benedictine Without A Monastery<\/strong>
\nAs a religious of the Congregation of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary, Father Damien\u2019s life was based on the Rule of Saint Benedict. Without living in a monastery and without the benefits and protection of the cloister, Father Damien found himself living the Rule of Saint Benedict on Molokai in ways prepared for him by the Providence of God. \u201cTo relieve the poor. To clothe the naked. To visit the sick. To bury the dead. To give help in trouble. To console the sorrowful. To avoid worldly behaviour. To set nothing before the love of Christ\u201d (RB 4:14-21). \u201cThe care of the sick,\u201d says Saint Benedict in another place, \u201cis to be given priority over everything else, so that they are indeed served as Christ would be served, since he himself said, \u2018I was sick and you visited me\u2019\u201d (RB 36:1-2).<\/p>\n

\"250px-FatherDamien.jpeg\"<\/a>Eucharistic Adoration<\/strong>
\nFather Damien was magnetized by the mystery of the Most Blessed Sacrament. He drew the strength to love and to serve the suffering members of his Mystical Body from adoration of the Eucharistic Body of Christ. To his brother he wrote, “Without the constant presence of our Divine Master, I would never be able to cast my lot with that of the lepers.” Father Damien built chapels all over Molokai; he established perpetual adoration of the Blessed Sacrament there. In 1888 he wrote to his provincial, \u201c This is the fifteenth year we observe night adoration . . . all of us lepers.\u201d<\/p>\n

Never To Despair of God’s Mercy<\/strong>
\nIn the end, all the \u201cthoughts and designs\u201d of the Heart of Christ were realized in the life and death of Blessed Father Damien. His feast invites us to say \u201cYes\u201d to our lives, not as we would have them be, but as it has pleased to God to write them and as He is writing them even now. Say \u201cYes\u201d to the triumph of love in your heart and in your life. Say \u201cYes,\u201d and following Blessed Damien in Saint Benedict\u2019s \u201cschool of the Lord\u2019s service\u201d (RB Pro: 45), \u201cnever despair of God\u2019s mercy\u201d (RB 4:74).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Memorial of Blessed Damien of Molokai, Priest I posted this reflection for the feast of Blessed Damien last May 10th, but in reviewing it, I see that its message has become, if anything, even more relevant to my own life. New readers of Vultus Christi may find it helpful. When Providence Writes One’s Life Blessed <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3223","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-saints"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paVypq-PZ","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vultuschristi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3223"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vultuschristi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vultuschristi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vultuschristi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vultuschristi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3223"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vultuschristi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3223\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13665,"href":"https:\/\/vultuschristi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3223\/revisions\/13665"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vultuschristi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3223"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vultuschristi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3223"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vultuschristi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3223"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}