Five Rules for a Spiritual Father

210muril.jpg1. Before meeting anyone for spiritual counsel, humble yourself profoundly before God, acknowledging your inability to do the least good for souls without Him. “Separated from me,” says the Lord, “you have no power to do anything” (Jn 15:5). “We have a treasure, then, in our keeping, but its shell is of perishable earthenware; it must be God, and not anything in ourselves, that gives it its sovereign power” (2 Cor 4:7).

2. Offer this spiritual work as an act of love to Our Lord Who says: “Believe me, when you did it to one of the least of my brethren here, you did it to me” (Mt 25:40).

3. Efface yourself as much as possible so that Christ alone may act. You are but the humble friend and servant of the Divine Bridegroom. “The bride,” that is the soul, “is for the Bridegroom; but the bridegroom’s friend, who stands by and listens to Him, rejoices too, rejoices at hearing the Bridegroom’s voice . . . . He must become more and more, I must become less and less” (Jn 3:29-30). Talk and act in the name of Jesus Christ and in utter dependence on His Spirit. “If any man speak, let him speak, as one who utters oracles of God. If any man minister, let him do it by the power, which God supplies: that in all things God may be honoured through Jesus Christ” (1 P 4:11).

4. Seek not to attach souls to yourself. Beware of hidden motives of a self-serving natural order. Trusting in the grace of the Holy Spirit, orient those who come to you ad Patrem, towards the Father alone, Who reveals Himself in the Eucharistic Face and in the Heart of Jesus Christ.

5. Consecrate each and every soul who comes to you to the Immaculate Heart of Mary, Mother of Mercy and Mediatrix of All Graces. Exercise your spiritual paternity in synergy with her motherhood. “And His Mother said to the servants, ‘Do whatever He tells you'” (Jn 2:6).

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